Saturday, October 25, 2014

The E-Day

Alhamdulillah. It all went well.

*relief*

Pagi-pagi sebelum itu, perasaan masih lagi 'cool' . Dah siap kena bebel & bising dengan bakal tunang malam sebelum kerana tak sempat untuk check keadaan homestay yang beliau tempah beberapa hari sebelum ni.

Agak mengecewakan keadaan homestay yang dia tempah. Seolah-olah terlalu lama tidak dibersihkan. Makanan & minuman lama di dalam peti ais masih tersimpan. Sinki yang kotor tidak dibersihkan dan terbiar.

Tapi sayangnya, hanya mampu untuk complaint saja kerana duit telah pun dibayar awal melalui online transfer. Sigh.

Beberapa jam sebelum rombongan tiba, barulah rasa macam jantung nak pecah. haha. Lambat betul otak ni memproses.

Mujur ada teman baik kesayangan menemani. Kalau tak menangis lah hadap perasaan 'nervous' sorang-sorang.

Tq Timah! 
Love you to the moon & back sebb sudi datang teman kawan awak sorang ni.

Aturcara majlis adalah seperti berikut:

10.00am : Rombongan lelaki tiba
10.30am : Perbincangan antara kedua belah pihak (tempoh bertunang & tetapan wang hantaran) & bacaan doa selamat
11.00am : Sesi sarung cincin & ambil gambar bersama tunang, keluarga & saudara mara
12.00pm : Makan tengah hari
02.00pm: Majlis bersurai


Gambar Sekitar Majlis Pertunangan 

a) Perbincangan kedua belah keluarga



b) Sesi menyarungkan cincin pertunangan


Alhamdulillah. Dah jadi tunang orang dahh!

c) Sesi bergambar bersama tunang tersayang & ahli keluarga terdekat

Dengan Mak terchenta ❤

Dengan Future MIL ❤

Keluarga belah lelaki ❤

Bersama makcik-makcikku ðŸ˜½

Thank you Fatimah Zaharah Ali for accompanying me. Mak org yg masih cun melecun. hihi

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Official photo dgn tunang kesayangan. 
Okay. Settle dah bab upload gambar pertunangan. Actually it was a very simple occasion.

Terima kasih kepada mak, abah, nenek, pakcik & makcik serta saudara mara jauh dekat yang terlibat secara langsung & tak langsung dalam membantu ksepanjang majlis ini sehingga akhir.

Alhamdulillah. Second milestone checked! So now on 25th Oct 2014, I'm officially a someone else's fiancee.

Perasaan? It's a mixed feelings. Rasa syukur, lega & at the same time risau. Al maklum lah, orang kata tempoh bertunang adalah yang paling mencabar dan banyak menguji mental bakal-bakal pasangan pengantin.

Darah manis kata orang. :p

Merasa juga nak berdarah manis rupanya kerana awal perancangan kami berdua hanyalah untuk risik & terus ke majlis nikah. as simple as we can.

But being the first & only daughter, my mom objects the plan and wanted me to have the engagement ceremony. And because I am the first grandchildren on my mother's side, the excitement is quite overwhelming in the extended family.

hewhew.

Next post kita update senarai semak hantaran pertunangan alritey? ðŸ˜½

Till we meet again, xoxo


Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Pre- E-Day Post

Alhamdulillah. One milestone checked last month. So now I am in the midst of preparing for my e-day. *Lap peluh sikit*


Hantaran

Since both of us agreed not to buy expensive and luxurious items for our e-day, we decided to keep it minimal and simple.

The main reason is due to our future planning. We decided to do some investments soon so we need to save up alot and be a bit thrifty to ourselves.

But obviously the B2B will always break the rules first. Haha. Luckily our e-day is only a month after the risik (which was decided during the risik), so yeah, no overspending happened.

Except for the telekung. Tapi agak sayang kerana harganya 2/3 kali ganda agak mahal berbanding kualiti. Sepatutnya boleh dapat dengan harga yang lebih murah. I guess that is the risk if bought through online unless you have been the frequent buyer. Phewh!

And in exchange, I decided to gave him a perfume set. So that we're equal. Lol.

He requested for La Nuit De L'Homme by YSL.

But unfortunately it was sold out earlier. So, instead of La Nuit, he will receives L' Homme set. The difference of those are from their intensity. La Nuit is a bit more intense compared to L' Homme which is a bit lighter. Too bad that we didn't came across the seller earlier. Ni pun search thourgh online.

Haha. Masih belum putus harap kepada online seller lagi. Alhamdulillah the price is affordable. Sangat. Boleh kata almost 50% lesser than the counter price in mall. Originality? I'll tell you later after this. Hehe.


Perfume Test

Ookayy.

Last night kita buat perfume test. On my skin & baju. My hands are still smelling good when i woke up this morning even after I have my shower.. Plus it's gonna be my fav perfume for him soon because it smells good on me, so it will definitely be good on him too. Sniff. Sniff. :p

The seller did offer us some perfume set for her. But then that means I need to add on more trays to complement him. So no, we'll buy later on for another occasions.


For now let's stick to our budget. Minimal budget. The aim is not to 'membazir' and get the ceremony done bless and blissfully.

La Nuit Pour Femme Tester


and oh! I received a small tester of La Nuit Pour Femme for her by Boss as a compliment (gile rugi tak mintak gift lain sebab tak pernah beli set, so tak tahu bole request. sobs.sobs).

Terus falls head over heel dengan bau dia. Siap-siap masuk dalam wish list dah. haha.

Shopaholic No More

Living a life back as a student definitely taught me to be really calculative when spending money. It was quite different back then when I was working. Nothing to calculate, nothing to worry. Just spent, spent, spent. Whenever, wherever and whatever I want.

Phewh!

So now, welcome back to the student's life. No more splurging yourself in unnecessary items. Online shopping? What's that?

Poplook? Zalora? Tak pernah dengar pun.

Haha.

You see, Allah always know best how to teach His servant to overcome his weaknesses. So this is the lessons im trying to pass at the moment.

Like prophet Muhammad pbuh said before,
"live this life as a traveller. this dunya is only a place for you to take a rest for a while before continuing your journey back home (akhirah)."
And I couldn't remember who said this, perhaps Rasulullah pbuh recite this as a duaa (correct me if im wrong), and was explained by Yasmine Mogahed
"never put dunya in your heart for it will destroy you. put it on hands and use it to gain the best for akhirah."

Till we meet again. xoxo